Daria

Biography
Nora "Daria" White is an 18 year old caucasian pansexual liberal female from Pennsylvania with Jewish heritage, who works in child care and on the Tiny Tots Comics and was born on May 11th, 2003, making her a Taurus. She has a younger brother named Chase, who she dearly cares for, as well as a mother and step-dad. She is one of the most well-known and reliable members of the Tiny Tots community, as well as the girlfriend to Cohen, of which also being the only girlfriend of his to have been given praise by both fans, friends and family alike on each other's sides. Daria has had a massive influence on both the comics themselves as well as the fandom that follows the comics, often you can find her even working directly with fans to help them create their own fanworks, most notably with Randy.Daria has started working on official Tiny Tots Comics as of Volume and onward, though she actually worked on a few issues prior to joining the staff team officially. Daria was one of the major people behind helping Cohen bring the character of Tempo to life, being a non-verbal autistic child was perfect for Daria to give Cohen some insight on (some of) the behaviors of, seeing as her young cousin Ivan had very similar traits. Being the only major female influence in the fandom, people have gone on to admittedly find her attractive, these people are called out as "simps" by most.

Daria is most commonly depicted with long brown hair, a cheeky/sarcastic smile, flowers, a white blouse and tight jeans. Alternatively, Daria is sometimes portrayed with a large baggy light red hoodie rather than a white blouse, sometimes wearing no pants and having the hoodie cover up her underwear. Daria is also often depicted farting, usually with a green cloud drawn coming from her butt, a reference to how she, in her own words, is gassy.

Childhood
Daria's childhood is not well known to the general public, as she wishes to remain private on most of the details. Daria's biological father has been missing for almost her entire life, and from what Daria has stated in the past, he is in prison for crimes relating to sexual harassment involving her family. She also used to have a female shih tzu named "Cutey", although one night Cutey unfortunately never found her way home. Daria has gone on record to state her biological dad as an extremely abusive man who abused Daria frequently as a young child, in addition to her mother who at that time was only 19 years old when she gave birth. In late-2021, Tobie-Rae leaked information that was intended to be private between her and Daria a year prior, Daria had told Tobie-Rae about background information on her trauma and how she had been dealing with it, as a means to try and help out Tobie-Rae; who revealed to the public that Daria's father did partake in sexual harassment with a young Daria, and was later arrested as a result.

Despite this all, her childhood was otherwise decent in her eyes, she had good friends, high grades and loved to read and write. Upon turning 14 however, Daria became more emotional and more depressed, with a constant paranoia and many thoughts of depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts. Coupled with her not getting the help she needed at that time, and soon having a newborn baby half-brother Chase that her mom and step-dad spent way more time trying to help with, she was in an abysmal state of mind; thinking her parents were getting more and more disconnected from her and she wasn't loved, likely to be disowned.

Recovery
Daria didn't get disowned like she expected, she was brought to a hospital and actually went through the proper therapies because her parents also took responsibility for what they didn't help with better before. Daria admits she got extremely lucky, and is more grateful for her amazing family than anything else in the world. To this day, Daria still gets help with her mental problems, but has reassured she is in a far better place than she ever had been since she turned 14, this being because of her therapy, her family helping and supporting her when she needs it the most, meeting and spending time with old and new friends, among other things.

One thing not listed was the introduction to Cohen around this same time, because that wasn't really helpful or bad, it didn't change a single thing for Daria at that time, she just liked talking to him but felt his writing was bad, even if passionate. This later changed when Cohen went on to create Tiny Tots, which Daria did actually follow the development of, and was impressed and had a newfound appreciation for Cohen as a result. When the comics actually started coming out, Daria praised them for the amount of good ideas, funny dialogue, diversity and inclusivity, fun and interesting storylines, amazing and relatable characters, among other things; notably leaving supportive comments on every single comic, a few of which were even liked by Cohen's mother, who has a rocky relationship with Daria. Daria later developed a crush on Cohen, but he was taken at that time by his then-girlfriend Tobie-Rae.

Fortunately for Daria, she didn't need to wait long, as only a few months into their relationship, Cohen broke up with Tobie-Rae, and was open for any girl interested. Daria and Cohen actually became close friends shortly after, along with Huka and Tactical often being alongside this new semi-group of friends as well. Eventually, Daria and Cohen began dating in secrecy, not revealing the fact they were dating until that following July, where she had then been an adult for a few months.

Present
Daria has been an active friend of many and Cohen's girlfriend to this day, she is in the best place mentally she ever has been since 14 years old, she continues to play around and joke around with friends and family, she plays games with several members of the Discord server, among other things. Daria does often get invested into drama, but has always played the role of the good side (or lesser-evil side) of an argument, major examples being with the Tobie-Rae and Dion Valley's Twitter dramas respectively. Daria has also gone on record to help support multiple teenagers in the fandom with their own mental health problems, as well as helping to ease gender transitions for multiple people, who have all gone on record to say she was one of the leading supporters during their respective closeted periods.

Daria is Cohen's current and fourth girlfriend, they started dating in secrecy on February 19th, 2021. However, they purposely didn't reveal they were dating until July 8th, 2021, a blatant jab at his previous ex, as they started dating exactly one year prior to that day. To hide this, they had actually hinted at their relationship with multiple jokes, as well as faking direct messages, for example; Daria admitting to Cohen she had a crush and Cohen rejected her; this was made to trick people and see the reactions. They are both at their happiest when they see and talk to eachother. Daria herself has stated that she treats Cohen exactly the way he treats her, with care and respect, but also occasional sass. Daria has also made it openly clear that her and Cohen share a sensual attraction for one another. Daria has however hinted at some things they discuss in private, including subtle hints that her and Cohen also share a sexual attraction to one another, Daria stating she wishes to raise children with him someday numerous times.

Unlike Cohen's previous girlfriend, Daria is the only girlfriend of Cohen's to be openly accepted by both the fanbases of Tiny Tots and the CBeanss YouTube channel, in addition to being the only girlfriend accepted by members of Cohen's family, notably being August, who Daria helped come to terms with who he was while closeted; August outright calls Daria part of the family, and mentions her in occasional family talk as a result. In another spark contrast from his previous ex, Cohen and Daria don't actually talk directly to each other a crazy amount, rather choosing to talk to each other mainly in a public area (such as the Discord Server), of course messaging privately still, mainly on Snapchat and Instagram via her KweenDaria account, but not excessively.

Daria has also shown open support towards Cohen, helping him produce Tiny Tots Comics as of Volume #2 and onwards, writing scripts and drawing backgrounds and/or objects. Daria has also supplied Cohen with several different ideas on the Tiny Tots Comics drafting board, as well as been a huge supporter and helper to direct members of the fandom. Interestingly, Daria is the only girlfriend of Cohen's to have never received the lol role in his Discord at any point, instead preferring to just keep the Comic Staff role. Many consider Daria to be a "sixth lol", some outright claiming that despite not having the role, she is a lol. Additionally; Daria's official first album, slated for release in 2022 is promised to feature Cohen in a song, in addition to Daria having a song to sing for Cohen.

On December 26th 2021, in relation to the aforementioned feature from Cohen on an album Daria is planning, Daria decided to send Cohen an audio file simply named "Forever.flac" attached with a message on Discord."Merry (Belated) Christmas Cohen!! I made something special just for you, thank you for making my life happier and safer, and thank you for all the work you've done to provide that same treatment and care for everyone else around you. I love you from the bottom of my heart, please take this gift from me once more. I hope you enjoy it!! :) <3 ~Daria"Upon opening the audio file, Cohen and August (who Daria helped ensure Cohen could hear it in time for the holidays) were treated to a cover of The Beach Boys' Forever done completely solo by Daria for Cohen. This cover is not publicly available, the only other information known is August describing it as "phenomenal and amazing" and commenting on how proud he was to have Daria in his life and dating his cousin. Other than that, Cohen's reply to the message remains the only other public information."I love you from the bottom of my heart as well. Merry Christmas to you and your family. Thank you for being in my life, it's only gotten better with you. I deadass felt like I was floating in space and time while listening to that, you are so fucking talented and I love that you can express that with something you love. I honestly forgot I was even in a vaguely lit room with August sitting in a weird position while listening. Thank you for everything. ~Cohen (in response to Daria's song)"The reason why only Cohen and August heard it was described as "Nobody else accepts me as family, nobody else gets to hear it." by Daria herself, largely a jab directed at Cohen's mother, who has expressed a distaste towards Daria on multiple occasions. Cohen's mother has a very inconsistent relationship with Daria, there have been times where his mother has liked comments made by Daria on Tiny Tots Comics, being the only comments she has liked on said posts in addition; but has also shown distaste towards Daria mentioning Tobie-Rae so much, despite the fact she forces herself into every conversation and it isn't Daria's fault directly. The likelihood is that his mom doesn't mind Daria as a friend to Cohen, but she doesn't like the idea of them being in a relationship together.

Friends
Daria is friends with many people involved in either the fandom or Discord, most notably though being the following:


 * Cohen - Daria and Cohen first met in January 2020 in a Discord server for writing, they talked in DMs after Daria had requested help and hit it off, Cohen invited her to see his project (CCU at the time), to which she didn't like and doubted his skills. She decided to still follow with the creation of Tiny Tots however, and in her own words "was proven dead wrong". Cohen and Daria would later go on to become boyfriend and girlfriend, but originally Cohen did not feel like them dating was a good idea, he later changed his mind when they talked some more and also shared a mutual distaste towards Cohen's previous ex, Tobie-Rae. Daria and Cohen began dating in secrecy on February 19th, 2021, and purposely told nobody about it until July 8th, 2021; the day Cohen started dating Tobie-Rae just one year prior. More often than not, you'll see Cohen and Daria aside one another whenever drawn, chatting, in a game, etc. this is because of their extremely strong bond and really funny remarks towards one another. Daria is Cohen's only girlfriend he has kept for longer than a few months, making her also Cohen's longest-lasting relationship currently, she is also the only girlfriend of Cohen's to be respected by both the Tiny Tots and CBeanss fanbases, the Discord server, The LOLs, other real life friends from either side, Daria's entire family, and even multiple members of Cohen's family; most notably being August, which he has often regarded Daria as one of the most important people in helping him both discover his gender identity and come out to his friends and family.
 * August - Daria and August started to DM each other commonly out of seemingly nowhere, however it proved to be a great thing in the end. As if it weren't for Daria, August would have had a much tougher time coming to terms with who he truly is; interestingly, Daria was one of the first people to be told about August's gender identity, shortly after Cohen, though she knew months prior to Cohen, as she recognized August having a non-binary flag in his profile picture in early 2021. They also both love Cheez-It's, which lead them to jokingly form a group dubbed "Cheez-It Gang", this group also featuring Cohen, who doesn't actually like Cheez-Its; sometimes making the group referred to as "Cheez-It Gang (and Cohen too I guess)". Daria is the only girlfriend of Cohen's that August has ever truly liked, and still remains good friends with to this day, even considering her part of the family, referring to her occasionally in family discussions.
 * Grooves - While they may not be as close as some of the other people on the list, Daria and Grooves have had some interesting chats overtime. They both share similarities of being introduced to the genre of rap music (specifically of the 90s-2000s variety) by each of their now absent biological fathers, most notably having a shared introduction to rap artist Eminem through both their respective biological fathers, and have had some interesting experiences to share to each other.
 * Milk - Daria and Milk are an odd pair to this day, Milk had no clue who Daria even was for the longest time, until finally talking to her and originally not really knowing what to talk about. Overtime however, Milk ended up wanting to talk to Daria as much as he wanted to talk to Cohen, for a brief time even moreso as Milk had a Beach Boys phase, and Daria knows a lot about The Beach Boys. Daria also ended up buying Milk Discord Nitro a few times, as well as the full Miitopia game on Nintendo Switch, which he was going to buy himself at first with his own money, but his parents wouldn't allow him to; leading to Daria doing it herself months later and joking about how "he wouldn't be playing it four months from now", referring to the reason his dad didn't let him buy the game.
 * Huka - Daria and Huka hit it off well, seeing as they're both nice people but can also be very ironic shitposters on Discord. Most of their talks are either serious, queer-coded or satirical. They also both make jokes in Spanish occasionally, seeing as they both learnt Spanish a lot; with Daria even going above and beyond and writing an entire Mr. Beast video translated into Spanish as a result of an existing Spanish overdub that the two of them and Cohen found to be hysterical.
 * Randy - Daria and Randy met via the Tiny Tots Discord, and she helped him work on his very own personal Tiny Tots O.C.s as well as multiple scripts for a potential fan comic featuring his own original characters to follow. Daria also remains the only person (aside from Cohen) to be added as a friend on Randy's Discord account that are from the Tiny Tots Discord.
 * Tactical Wolf - Daria and Tactical began talking more overtime as a result of them (and Huka) being invested in Cohen's then-recent Sims 4 streams on Discord. Tactical Wolf later admitted to actually having a crush on Daria for a period of time, which she laughed off after Tactical himself already clarified he wanted to stay friends. They both know Spanish, leading them to sometimes talk in Spanish and joke around to throw people off that don't understand the language.
 * Gracie - Daria and Gracie met via Instagram on the Tiny Tots Comics profile comments, they messaged eachother a bit and Daria assured Gracie she was a completely judge-free person, as long as you're a good person. This ended up being true, as they often talked about how Gracie felt with her hormones and (problems) at the time, as a result Daria also became the first person to be told that Gracie was trans. Daria and Grace are both decently fluent in Spanish, sometimes speaking exclusively in Spanish to make jokes others would not understand.

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Enemies

 * Tobie-Rae - Daria and Tobie-Rae used to be friends when they had first met and started talking to eachother through Instagram and Cohen, but they mainly talked about mental health. This all changed once Cohen had revealed how Tobie-Rae treated him, which caused Daria to reflect on how she was treated as well. While Daria wanted to remain neutral on the drama, she already knew from the start that Cohen was in the right. Funnily enough, Tobie-Rae started to talk with Daria more and more after she had just broken up with Cohen, and with Tobie-Rae being pansexual, having a crush on Daria could have been a possibility. Daria later took advantage of Cohen being open and started dating him in secrecy, although later told Tobie-Rae on July 8th 2021, the same day she began dating Cohen one year prior. Tobie-Rae has gone on to be extremely rude towards Daria directly and indirectly; most notably referring to Daria as only a "dirty jew", as well as framing Daria for multiple pedophilic crimes that she had nothing to do with.
 * Dion - Although Daria and Dion have not had much interactions with eachother, it's safe to say they're sort of frenemies, sometimes Daria and Dion would calmly talk and try to sort things out and let Cohen have a talk with them as well. Other times she would be against them and trying to explain why they shouldn't be brought back. Nonetheless, she has never once truthfully meant any harm towards them and has no bias against them, Daria doesn't actually care that much about Dion despite what many people believe.
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 * Aiden - Aiden and Daria have only ever talked once or twice, and yet they have considered eachother a bad pair numerous times. Daria has never said anything against Aiden, but he holds a lot against Daria; nobody knows exactly what he has said, just that there has presumably been multiple instances where he has privately messaged close friends of his and joked about her demeaningly, also publicly referring to Daria as being "fake" more than once. The true intent of his statement isn't known, but it's estimated he is saying what she expects from Cohen is unrealistic, and that their relationship cannot work.

Influence
Daria is without a doubt one of the most important members of the Tiny Tots fandom, she was there from the very start, she was always at least friends with Cohen, and as of recent has officially become a member of the Tiny Tots Comics Staff, and has been dating Cohen for over three months. Besides that, there's still way more she's done.


 * Daria initially exposed a lot about the true Tobie-Rae all on her own, though later on others joined in and discussed it all in Daria's Discord.
 * Daria had heavy influence on Tiny Tots Comics' Volume #2 artstyle, Cohen started sketching characters to be way more emotional and have far skinnier lines and overall cuter designs. About halfway through, Cohen just ended up letting Daria help him make the character designs. She personally asked to be uncredited on Open Your Heart (#026), despite writing a lot of the script. She has since been added to the Tiny Tots Staff, and is the only other person to have ever been added aside from Cohen himself.
 * In the Tiny Tots Comics, she has a total of eleven published credits.
 * Daria helped out with several members of the fandom discover their true selves, most notably with August and Gracie being able to safely come out as transgender (FtM and MtF respectively).
 * While not the original poster, Daria helped popularized multiple discord-related memes, including: :interracialassshaking:, as a kid:/SLOP!!! and surfing pig.

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Problematic Music
In her debut single "ABC's", she made it partially intended as a jab at Cohen's ex-girlfriend Tobie-Rae. The song contained Daria with an overly high-pitched, annoying voice (mocking what a baby would sound like), listing out letters of the alphabet from A-Z with an added word beginning with the letter following. This is in reference to how kids learning their ABC's are told stuff such as "A is for Apple". In a part of the song Daria makes a blatant jab at Tobie-Rae, and indirectly the littlespace community as a whole; directly mocking the sensitivity of her, following that by singing "fuck you, grow up". While directed at Tobie-Rae, a minority of the age regression community felt hurt by these words; Daria later took down the song, apologizing privately to those offended, and never re-released or made a new take of the song.

Additionally, Daria had a completely different cover photo for the release of the ABC's single than the final product; initially setting up a makeshift nursery set featuring objects you would find associated with babies; blankets, stuffed animals, bottles, diapers, pacifers, baby toys, etc. Daria wanted to take a photo of herself in a diaper and a pacifer; mocking Tobie-Rae, who the song was targeted against. The photo session did occur, but she opted to alter the costume from her original thoughts, wearing footed pajamas instead to avoid any sexual themes. Daria described the experience as "awkward and weird, but kind of fun from a design perspective". Daria ultimately decided to make a simple cover instead, simply taking a photo of threaded bunnies against her bathroom wall.

Jealousy
While not ever deemed as controversy, it should be noted in another now-deleted song recorded in November 2020, "caffeine", had lyrics that alluded towards the death of an unnamed man who complimented a 16-year-old Daria one week prior to his passing. Later in the song, Daria also sang lyrics saying "I still think of him on every awkward first date", Daria also later sang "I'm terrified of attachment, because everybody leaves me"; the song is heavily rumored to be indirectly about Cohen, but moreso how Daria felt about developing a crush on him while he was already in a deep relationship his then-girlfriend Tobie-Rae, who had gotten a breakup with Cohen exactly one week after Daria originally recorded the song; an intentional reference to the alluded dead man at 16 years old.

Daria wrote it as a week intentionally, knowing full-well Tobie-Rae wouldn't be the same after her trip to the mental hospital; the rumors alluding to the theme being a crush on Cohen despite him being taken were confirmed by Daria later on. Daria reaffirmed this by stating she had a demo around of her covering Radiohead's Creep and The Beatles' Run For Your Life both around the same timeframe as caffeine was made; all three of these songs sharing multiple themes within the lyrics; running, love and dark themes."When you were here before, couldn't look you in the eyes. You're just like an angel, your skin makes me cry. You float like a feather, in a beautiful world. I wish I was special, you're so fucking special. ~Daria, covering Radiohead's Creep"

In Radiohead's Creep, the lyrics have multiple interpretations; though Daria described her experience for covering the song as the following, "I confess my love, the guy is shocked and can’t answer, is scared, afraid, and runs away. I still love her, still feel the same, but again, what am I doing here, loving this guy, confessing my love, playing this one-sided game of love". The guy in question is Cohen, Daria calling herself a creep and a weirdo as well as the remark of "one-sided love" is her coming to terms that no matter what, she won't be able to make him love her; especially with him being taken by his then-girlfriend Tobie-Rae, who seemed deeply with in love on the outside. An alternative meaning to Daria in 2021, is the lyrics refer to Tobie-Rae being frightened by Daria's presence and running away in response to avoid being assaulted. Additionally, Daria revealed the lyrics saying "I don't belong here!" is directly referring to Cohen's life, his friends and family; thinking they would never accept her. Daria also changes the lyrics "What the hell am I doing here?" in the chorus to "What the fuck am I doing here?!", likely to add dramatic effect. I don't care if it hurts, I wanna have control, I want a perfect body, I want a perfect soul. I want you to notice when I'm not around. He's so fucking special. I wish I was special... But I'm a creep, I'm a weirdo. What the fuck am I doing here?! I don't belong here! ~Daria, covering Radiohead's Creep Well, I'd rather see you dead little girl, than to be with my own man. You better keep your head, little girl, or you won't know where I am. You better run for your life if you can, little girl. Hide your head in the sand, little girl. Catch you with my own man, that's the end, little girl. ~Daria covering The Beatles' Run For Your Life In The Beatles' Run For Your Life, Daria sang the song very faithfully to the original; this was very much intentional given the already creepy undertones the lyrics had. What made the song seem perfect for Daria to sing about how she felt with Cohen being in a relationship with Tobie-Rae was the main chorus, as it fit perfectly with Tobie-Rae's persona, whether it was her big age or little age; referring to the woman in the song as "little girl". Daria had often seen Cohen treat Tobie-Rae similarly with the nickname "baby", Daria had also seen Tobie-Rae had an interest in BDSM and other forms of extreme sexual activites; Daria put two-and-two together and decided to cover the song with the intention of telling Tobie-Rae to leave "my own man" alone. The original lyric for "my own man" is "another man", likely changed by Daria to imply that Cohen was her only man and that Tobie-Rae could go and find another, but Daria never wanted to see her interacting with Cohen ever again."Well, you know that I'm a wicked guy, and I was born with a jealous mind. And I can't spend my whole life trying just to make you toe the line. Let this be a sermon, I mean everything I've said. Baby I'm determined, and I'd rather see you dead. ~Daria, covering The Beatles' Run For Your Life at different points."The lyrics stating "you know that I'm a wicked guy, and I was born with a jealous mind" is most likely a reference to Tobie-Rae's extreme feminism; hating everything about almost every man and referring to them all as many disturbing names. Daria stated she sang those lyrics in the now-lost demo satiracally, doing an impression of Tobie-Rae's voice. The entire cover outright said that if Tobie-Rae didn't let Daria have Cohen, Daria would murder her. A photo shoot was planned for the song when it was intended to be a single release; Daria picturing a cover where she was laying in a pool of blood and innards next to a dirty and bloody shovel, wearing nothing but a dirty tank top; the bottom-half of her body remained out of frame. Ultimately the release of the song and the photoshoot never happened.

False Accusations
In Early 2021, Daria made a reply to a post that Tobie-Rae made on her then-new tobsdiaperstash Instagram account, jokingly mocking the profile picture used, which was a simple photo of a diaper package taken from a Walmart store page. Daria mocking how she "didn't even wear the first result on google for diaper" in the video; while an obvious joke, when the account got traction and heavily reported, people replied to Daria's comment calling her out as a "pedophile" for not shaming Tobie-Rae for filming herself peeing, and also encouraging it. Daria replied explicitly to the people claiming this, the exact reply isn't known as it is deleted; but she confirmed that she was obviously not a pedophile and did not encourage Tobie-Rae's behaviors.

Some have argued that the relationship between Cohen (a minor) and Daria (a major) should be deemed illegal. In reality, this is simply untrue. Cohen was born in 2004, Daria was born in 2003, Daria's birthday is 7 months before Cohen's, making her look two years older to some when it's only one year. In addition to this, the age of consent in Canada and The United States are not the same, in Canada the age of consent is 16, America is 18. That being said, they have had no genuine plans or thoughts of real sexual actions towards one another, with them both agreeing it'd be best to wait until Cohen is 18 anyways, or even later, further disproving this point.

The argument of alleged pedophilia was brought back again after Daria and Cohen agreed to play a prank on Tobie-Rae, which involved mocking her diaper fetish. Daria and Cohen discussed it the night before Daria sent the drawing to Tobie-Rae, Cohen gave his full consent that she could make it, seeing as it was a joke drawing and didn't actually have any value on their real selves. Cohen actually found the idea to be really funny, "in a sort-of disturbing way". This drawing was also never meant to be seen by anybody but Tobie-Rae, but they already knew she would likely share it with everybody uncensored, so it was toned down a bit from the original plan. Tobie-Rae received a message from Daria with the image she had drawn with Cohen, pretending that she had a change of heart and wanted to make an "apology art" for Tobie-Rae, since Daria went on record many times to talk about how Tobie-Rae making her fetish public, especially as a minor, was disgusting. In January of 2022, Tobie-Rae publicly leaked the drawing that Daria had made involving Cohen and her being involved in sexual activites whilst naked; Daria was wearing a used diaper containing urine, feces and semen; Cohen ejaculating onto Daria with his penis erected; additionally Daria's breasts were exposed, showing an uncensored nipple.

In 2022 it was discovered Daria had sang "Run For Your Life" directly about how she felt seeing Cohen, who she was developing a crush on when she recorded the song, and how he was taken already by a seemingly deeply-in-love girlfriend, Tobie-Rae. The lyrics constantly refer to "little girl" (Tobie-Rae) and Daria telling her to run for her life, and stating if she goes anywhere near "my own man" (Cohen), she would murder her. Referring to Tobie-Rae as little girl throughout the song, especially with the themes of both love and murder made a lot of people feel unsettled.